Overcoming The Lies We Believe That Hold Us Back
Donna’s Story – I Drink All Day
I have a drinking problem. But it is not what you think. You may laugh when you hear it. I have to hide it from my family because they are tired of it. Each morning before work I stop by the liquor store. I get back in my car, twist open the bottle and begin to chug. I cannot help myself. I am so satisfied when I take the last sips. It is not alcohol but soda. Each day I drink at least a liter of Dr. Pepper. It may sound ridiculous to some. That is one of the LIES I believe, that “I have to drink.”
If I tell others about my problem they will judge me. That is my 2nd LIE. However, my mother says that I should stop. I know that I should but I can’t stop and never will. That is my third BUG.
So at lunch break today at the office, I will sit in my car and drink two more cans of soda. I drink before I go into church so I can cope. A friend of mine that drinks alcohol each night told me to get it under control. I regret telling her. I have so many BUGs.
IF YOUR STORY CAN INSPIRE ONE LIFE – IT IS WORTH TELLING
Could you share in 500 words or less your story about BUGs? The Beliefs Undermining Goals in your life. The 7 or so lies you believe. No names will be published without your permission.
If you feel so compelled, enter your story here. Imagine your story will be read by others that may be severely suffering. Others that need to be inspired. Or those that need to know that “I too believe that lie.” Please keep your story PG-13 because kids have BUGs. Kids need stories that prepare them for life. Mental health could be considered a “pandemic.”
In the sales field, I know a few million that have BUGs. Sales reps quit too often and too fast. Families and companies will be more productive when we address the BUGs in our lives. Sales has been my career. That is my work mission. Cancer and depression took over my life. That is my life mission.
HOW TO TELL YOUR STORY
What are the 7 lies you believe? Has it affected others in your life? How have the BUGs affected your life? Please keep your story to approximately 500 words or so. And keep it PG-13. Your story may be published in the book as “anonymous” or with your approval, your name will be included.
Leadership and a New Reality
I have quit smoking 100 times. I can never lose this weight. I will never earn a high income. My parents didn’t love me. My daughter will never speak with me again. I am not good enough. Nobody really likes me. This pain will never stop. I need a soda, now! I have to shoot up now! I must go online and look where I shouldn’t. That won’t work, why should I try. Lies. All lies. Lies that control our brains. These and 100’s others control and destroy.
- Habits
- Impulses
- Distractions
- Escapes
We all have something to H.I.D.E.
WILL YOU BE PART OF MY RESEARCH FOR THE BOOK?
I have been a cancer survivor. Stage 4 Squamous Cell Carcinoma. Followed by a devastating battle with depression. Suicide seemed the only option. Then the divorce. And then financial devastation.
My career has been in the real estate industry. I interview people for their insights and experiences of Realtors, Insurance Reps, Loan Officers, and other professionals in the industry. I am also looking for more opportunities to speak with Social Workers, Pastors and professionals that counsel people. People in pain that have persevered.
Your story matters. Your insight is compelling.
THE IMPACT ON FAMILIES AND SALES FORCES
We all believe lies. Many started out when we were kids. Our own kids and grandkids are just cultivating their life lies. This affects relationships, our health, and makes short careers of salespeople.
My work is dedicated to that field as it has always been part of my comeback. After losing my job in the 1980’s real estate was my comeback. After cancer and depression, real estate was my comeback. After divorce.
The Leadership Our Industry Needs Right Now
About Bryan Kelsey
Cancer survivor. Father. Grandfather. Sibling to 5. Cubs fan. Author of Shark Detectors – How to invest without getting eaten alive. Property investor in St. Louis and Florida. Part of an analyst team for property acquisition. Developer of efficient teams. He is an accomplished business development executive who provides comprehensive and highly focused educational programs for aspiring salespeople. Future author of The 7 Lies I Believe.
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This book is a collaboration of people like you.
Together you and I and others can bring inspiration and joy filled lives.